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falling in & out of love @ the same time WHAT?
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir What does it mean to fall in love? And to fall out of love? When I try to answer these big life questions, I find myself always going back to poetry. It soothes my soul and although indirectly, always gets me to where I need to be. Whether that's in bed in tears, with goosebumps reading more and more, or somewhere in between those two emotional states. As I did my research and deep dive for this article, I found this poem that alludes to the pro
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Jan 299 min read


lets go dress shopping; gender expansion for youth & the next gen
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir I've worked in many schools, in many educational spaces, and with LOTS of kids, so many it's hard to count....
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Aug 26, 20257 min read


Erotic Literature; what's said and unsaid. An in depth Interview.
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir https://www.invaluable.com/auction-lot/erotica-4022-c-c224c368df I love asking people about their...
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Jul 25, 202511 min read


F*ck Universal, Why do we Kiss?
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir "Hablamos con Besos"- Print made by (me) Tamar Weir In all the movies I ingested and was addicted to as a...
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May 23, 20256 min read


How thinking my bff gave me oral herpes shifted my idea of STI's
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir So as many of you may know, since I write about and talk about this topic a lot, I have genital herpes. I...
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May 12, 20258 min read


The Diversity of Vulvas; the harmful messaging of societies fear of our bodies!
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Being a person with a vulva, with a vagina comes with lots of shit. Being a person with any genitals really...
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Apr 25, 20259 min read


Can Every Body Experience the Thrill of Squirting?
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Illustrations by Suharu Ogawa. Squirting is a topic that draws curiosity and fascination, often cloaked in...
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Apr 11, 20257 min read


Playing Pretend Never Stops: Imagination into Eroticism
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Art by: Charlie O'shields As a child, I had an active imagination. Like many, I had various imaginary...
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Mar 17, 20259 min read


From Meh to Toe Ring Goddess
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Feet. A small part of our body. Some love feet, some hate the touch and idea of feet. The history of feet...
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Mar 3, 20255 min read


Porn; Why we are afraid to reclaim our hornyness and the surprising benefits of erotic content
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Image from the comic " Lucie Makes Porn " Porn is one of those things that people don't like to talk about,...
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Feb 11, 20259 min read


Is liberation possible in a patriarchal society: the tales of Tala
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir In exploring the development of a subject’s sexuality and gender, I thought it would be best to interview...
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Feb 4, 202510 min read


To Spank or not to Spank; investigations into the intimate weavings of trauma & pleasure
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir I've always been a very curious person by nature, in my soul, and deep in my heart. Whether it is learning...
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Jan 28, 20258 min read


How having great sex heals and connects you to your ancestors
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir I never talked to my grandma about sex, sexuality, what she thought about the word liberation, freedom, and...
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Jan 21, 202510 min read


"I just couldn't do it" an investigation into non monogamy, polyamory, or whatever you want to call it.
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir My first official boyfriend was a narcissist, and an emotionally abusive 15 year old white boy. He was...
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Jan 14, 202514 min read


Embracing Desire: The Bold Expression of Queer Erotic Art!
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Erotic art uniquely captures the subtleties of intimacy, especially in the queer community. It functions...
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Jan 5, 20259 min read


Herpes... Let's talk about it...
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir There were two moments that are solidly in my memory, and remain there. Being barely 18, freshmen year of...
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Dec 31, 202412 min read


Unveiling Polyamory: Poetry and the Complexities of Love
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir Polyamory invites us to rethink love in its many forms. What basically every movie portrays, is the...
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Dec 22, 20246 min read


Nude, in Kos with a massage therapist and an artist
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir In my early 20's my entire extended family decided it would be a good idea to get together, in a foreign...
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Dec 19, 20246 min read


Yeast Infection Sprouting at the middle school Field trip
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir In 7th grade, my small arts middle school decided it would be a good idea to take a field trip to the...
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Dec 6, 20245 min read


Queerness; like meeting your love at a musty home in Santa Cruz.
Written by: Tamar Simone Weir I remember the first time exploring my queer sexuality with another woman, she looked at me at a party,...
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Dec 1, 20244 min read
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